Quora Question/Answer : "Which are the practical ways to take one's own wife to bed after 2 kids and 10 years of married life?"

Question:  Which are the practical ways to take one's own wife to bed after 2 kids and 10 years of married life?

Answer: I will try to guide you sir, if you can invest some time and effort in yourself, you can expect to see (and maintain) changes.

Let's begin.

First of all, accept that you cannot negotiate desire. Please read more at The Desire Dynamic

Now, a woman is not as sexually hungry as a man, but society will have you believe so. Details and truth at Women & Sex

Also, a woman usually marries to legally bind a provider to look after her financial security (around 28 years of age) since her sexual market value begins to drop rapidly after this age. Learn about the sexual marketplace at Final Exam – Navigating the SMP

Once you have gotten an idea of these fundamentals, please read and implement in your life suggestions at Relationship Game – Wife Sex

Now,  we will work on your physical health and attractiveness. Learn that physical looks are crucial. Physical attraction is important. Why? Society tells you otherwise. Ignore your societal indoctrination and learn the truth at Looks Count

In addition, don't buy the Just Be Yourself suggestion.

I have linked to a lot of articles so that you can learn directly from the masters of inter-gender relations.

Society trains men to be blind to the reality. And you appear to be on the losing side of this training as majority are. I invite you to the truth, be bold and enjoy a better life.

Best of luck!

Originally posted on Quora here.