Quora Question-Answer: "I have gave up on changing my ever demanding and controlling wife. I still live with her thinking I owe her because we married. Am I doing right?"
Do not buy the societal indoctrination that a husband must always stay with the woman he married.
She has to earn her position to be your wife. How does she do that? By knowing her place much lower to you, following your orders (in and out of bedroom), keeping herself fit and groomed for you, searching for ways to please you, to make you happy.